Arrest reducing Sex drive (Part 1)

Did your sex drive nosedive like the sensex last year? Here are nine resolutions you should
make to rekindle the flame this 2009.

1. Learn some Kama Sutra
Given that the world’s oldest guide on love, sex and spirituality is our home production, we
Indians should be most adept at the subject. Not the case with you? Well, the book will
never go out of fashion and relevance. Plus, its sex chapters have often been plucked out
and circulated on the internet, books and on DVDs. Apart from positions, it has some useful
advice on behaviour, kissing and touching as well. Turn over a new leaf tonight!

2. Revisit old moves
If you’ve stopped making certain moves in bed because they’ve bothered you or your partner,
find out exactly why it occurs and get over it. Keep in mind, though, the same goes for
him/her. Also, if you think you’re too ‘grown up’ for some moves you used to make with your
college flame, a total recall would be fun!

3. Make a sexual to-do list
We’re not saying stick Post-its on the ceiling but you and your partner can set a rough
timetable, right? Once a month, once a week, whenever suits you – it is important to make
to-do list of styles, fantasies – whatever’s fun. Remember, bargaining and bribery works
wonders here.

4. Have more foreplay
Our ‘Sexpert’ has said countless times, but our women still complain of insufficient
foreplay when it comes to sex. Here’s a fact: women who get at least 20 minutes of foreplay
are 80 per cent more likely to have an orgasm. Don’t let your lover be one in the remaining
20 per cent.

--- to be concluded ---