Arrest reducing Sex drive (Part 2)

Did your sex drive nosedive like the sensex last year? Here are nine resolutions you should
make to rekindle the flame this 2009. In my last post, I talked about first 4 tips to revive your Sex life...

1. Learn some Kama Sutra
2. Revisit old moves
3. Make a sexual to-do list
4. Have more foreplay

5. Add the funk
Sex has become a mechanical activity for many stressed couples of Mumbai. There’s a way out.
One of you – whoever’s less stressed – can change the way you make love (at least for one
night for starters). Suggestions: Forget the ice cubes cliché, get a bottle of wine instead;
play raunchy Hindi numbers, encourage dirty chatter in bed… we hope you get the drift.

6. Go on an adventurous date
A weekend trip to an exotic resort can just get the fun back into your sex. Sometimes, a
break in monotony is just what your brain needs to get energised. Go for a swim together,
take to mountain-climbing, paragliding or simply walk down the beach. Excitement needn’t
always be expensive.

7. Overcome your fear
Is there anything you or your mate want to try but breaks into a cold sweat attempting it?
There is nothing as liberating as being terrified of something and overcoming it.

8. Break one of your taboos
Similarly, if you’ve imposed any rules or taboos on yourself because of fear, lack of
knowledge or social pressure, 2009 is the year to break it.

9. Communicate better
.. and more regularly. It is perhaps the most crucial resolution for your relationship. It
seems basic, but when was the last time you discussed sex with him/her? Speaking up is one
of the most important ingredients of a healthy sex life.