Periods, oral sex & Sex after pregnancy

Q1: 1) I experience motions during my periods. Is it normal or do I need to consult a doctor? 2) Is oral sex illegal in India? However, I believe many couples indulge in it.

A1: 1) You could consult a doctor to decide whether there's any other cause involved. 2) Yes, oral sex is illegal. The archaic laws have not been modified. It is a sensitive subject. In privacy, many couples indulge in it. Some do it to avoid unsafe intercourse, being scared of AIDS.

Q2: My wife delivered two months ago and underwent tubectomy 20 days later. For how long should we abstain from sex?

A2: Ask the doctor who operated her. I think you can start immediately without any anxiety.