Complications of Pregnancy & Sex

Q: I am 26 years old. My wife is 25 years old. 1) We plan to have a baby only after two years, but our parents are forcing us to hurry up. They say that when a woman turns 30, there are chances of complications during pregnancy. Is this true? Also, would my sperm count go down as I approach 30? 2) Can flavoured condoms cause any complications? 3) Sometimes, the intercourse lasts for 10 minutes. At times, it gets over before three minutes. Is it okay? Should I practice 'start and stop' technique? 4) Please tell us about the best possible positions. 5) On what days of the monthly period cycle can we indulge in unprotected sex?

A: 1) You both have the right to decide when you wish to start a family. It is best she gets herself examined by a gynaecologist and you have a sperm count test done to ensure all is well when you wish to have a baby. It is best to start trying when you are 25. After that, there are higher chances of facing a difficulty. 2) No complications, if you use condoms from reputed manufacturers. Get the doctors-tested Flavored Condoms. 3) You can, but this is not essential. 4) Refer the net or the Kamasutra. You are doing okay. 5) The first and last seven days of the period cycle counting from the first day of period. It is virtually safe and worth taking a risk. For added safety, your wife could insert the barrier tablet TODAY, 15 minutes before intercourse. She can also use Water-based lubricats for additional comfort and guaranteed results.