Sunday, 19 October 2008

Ask Sexpert: Am I Virgin?

Q: I am a 21-year-old virgin. My boyfriend always insists on fingering me. I am scared that if the hymen breaks, I will bleed. How do I explain this to him? I am also scared to lose my virginity.

A: If he inserts his finger your hymen may split. However, that does not mean you are not a virgin – you will be one until you have intercourse. The bleeding following the split is small and stops soon. You will have to give him a firm no or prepare him to leave for greener pastures.

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