Large penis & unprotected Sex

Q1: I am 21 years old. My penis is very large in size and it is slightly tilted towards the left. Will it harm my sex life? Or will my child be born handicap due to this?

A1: Neither your sexual activity nor your progeny will be affected in any way. In case you're facing trouble with erections, you should try the proven techniques to prolong erection.

Q2: I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend on the seventh day of her periods. However, her next periods lasted only for two days. We are worried that she might be pregnant. We regret our mistake. Please help.

A2: Buy a urine pregnancy kit and check for pregnancy. Most probably, it will be negative. If tested positive, consult a gynaecologist. If your girlfriend experienced a good flow during the supposed periods, then that was her menstruation.

Monotonous Sex life and drugs

Q1: I have been using a capsule called spasmo proxyvon for the past two years. I feel my penis size is reducing because of this. It measures about four inches when erect. Will this capsule affect my sex life? Also, I want to get rid of this drug addiction. Please help.

A1: I am sorry to say, you have become a drug addict. It is wise that you try to get out of it before your normal and sexual life is disturbed. Instead of drugs, you should use proven techniques to prolong erection. You should also contact a drug addiction centre such as SANKALP. Tel: 24901302.

Q2: I am 40 years old and my wife is 35. Our sex life has become monotonous over the last two years. We want to experiment with oral and anal sex. Is it harmful? Please suggest.

A2: Why not break the monotony by going back to your early naughty days. Have a bath or a massage together. Oral sex is not harmful but please avoid anal sex, and if you must, then only with a special thick condom.

Complications of Pregnancy & Sex

Q: I am 26 years old. My wife is 25 years old. 1) We plan to have a baby only after two years, but our parents are forcing us to hurry up. They say that when a woman turns 30, there are chances of complications during pregnancy. Is this true? Also, would my sperm count go down as I approach 30? 2) Can flavoured condoms cause any complications? 3) Sometimes, the intercourse lasts for 10 minutes. At times, it gets over before three minutes. Is it okay? Should I practice 'start and stop' technique? 4) Please tell us about the best possible positions. 5) On what days of the monthly period cycle can we indulge in unprotected sex?

A: 1) You both have the right to decide when you wish to start a family. It is best she gets herself examined by a gynaecologist and you have a sperm count test done to ensure all is well when you wish to have a baby. It is best to start trying when you are 25. After that, there are higher chances of facing a difficulty. 2) No complications, if you use condoms from reputed manufacturers. Get the doctors-tested Flavored Condoms. 3) You can, but this is not essential. 4) Refer the net or the Kamasutra. You are doing okay. 5) The first and last seven days of the period cycle counting from the first day of period. It is virtually safe and worth taking a risk. For added safety, your wife could insert the barrier tablet TODAY, 15 minutes before intercourse. She can also use Water-based lubricats for additional comfort and guaranteed results.

Is Sex sleeping pill?

Q: I am 32 years old. I have been married for the past eight years. I love sex and indulge in it every day. I can’t sleep if I don’t have sex. My wife is very co-operative. However, she occasionally experiences stomach aches due to this. Are my habits normal? Please suggest.

A: Sex is not a sleeping pill. Indulge in it when you both enjoy it, and not necessarily on a daily basis. Your primary duty is to ensure that your wife is comfortable.

Solution of bedwetting

Q: I am 24 years old. I suffer from a problem of bedwetting. I have tried a lot to get rid of it, but haven’t been successful. I have decided to commit suicide if I don’t get rid of this problem before next year. Also, I don’t have facial hair under my nose. It is very embarrassing. Please help.

A: Why do you take these common problems so seriously? How does it matter to anyone whether you have hair under your nose or not? Does it make you less of a man? Regarding your bedwetting problem, consult a urologist at the genito urinary department of any major hospital such as Sion, KEM and JJ. Visit hospitals such as Hinduja and Jaslok if you can afford. Do not be
desperate. There is a solution to your problem.

Is masturbation immoral & lead to irregular periods?

Q1: I indulged in masturbation last week. Am I a bad human being? I am very scared. How do I quit masturbation? Please help.

A1: It is quite common for a person to masturbate. It is a safe method to satisfy one's sexual
excitement. Do it only for satisfaction and do not turn it into a habit. Do not think
yourself inferior for this.

Q2: Can masturbation be the reason for irregular periods?

A2: Masturbation will not disturb your period cycle.