No orgasm, Premature ejaculation, Frustrated wife

Q: I am 30 years old, married four months ago. I usually ejaculate during foreplay. Sometimes my penis doesn’t get erect due to lack of excitement. Many times my penis bends at the time of penetration or it slips away from the vagina. Sometimes during penetration, it withdraws on its own due to weakness. My wife and I are very frustrated. Please help.

A: Change your position. Try the woman on top position. During masturbation, stop much before you get the sensation to ejaculate. Press the head of your penis between two fingers and your thumb, and restart stroking. Repeat 12 to 15 times. You should improve in four months. At intercourse, enter gently. A well-lubricated vagina can make matters easier. Wait inside till you are under control; stop and start many times. If this therapy does not succeed, see a sexologist for medication.