10 Rules of Safe Anal Sex (1/5)

Anal Eroticism is surrounded by a powerful taboo. Yet millions of men and women - straight, gay and bisexual - are experimenting with anal sex. The anus, richly endowed with nerve endings and interconnected with the main pelvic muscles, is the closest erogenous neighbor of the genitals and contracts rhythmically during orgasm. Thirty-five years ago, Kinsey stated that the anal region had erotic significance for about half of the population. In a survey of 100,000 Playboy readers, 47 percent of the men and 61 percent of the women admitted to having tried anal intercourse.

Yet the anal taboo inhibits most people from thinking, talking and learning about the sexual use of the anus. Listed here are the ten things most men and women still do not know about anal sex:

1. Anal intercourse is the least practiced form of anal sex.
There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically. The most common techniques include touching the anal opening while masturbating or stimulating a partner's anus during intercourse or oral sex. Some people enjoy the sensation of a finger - their own or a lover's - insinuated into their anal opening and gently rotated. Others may prefer the insertion of a dildo or vibrator beyond the anal opening and short anal canal into the larger rectum.

Many men, including heterosexuals, prefer this form of penetration. Oral-anal lovemaking is popularly known as rimming. The very idea disgusts some people. Others enjoy performing it or allowing themselves to be probed in this special way.

2. Anal stimulation, including intercourse, is not painful if done properly.
The belief that anal stimulation, especially intercourse, has to hurt is a persistent and dangerous myth. Just as pain anywhere in the body indicates that something is wrong, so is the same true of the anal area. With its high concentration of nerve endings, the anus can produce extreme agony when it is mistreated. Yet it can be a source of great pleasure. When a finger, object or penis is introduced into the anus, the anal muscles go into spasm, as if fighting off an invasion. Pain will result if the partners do not wait for these muscles to relax. Under sufficient stress they will eventually collapse and the pain subside, unless further damage is done. But, any 'pleasure' afforded from this kind of activity derives mostly from the absence of discomfort.

Maximum anal pleasure requires the elimination of all pain or physical trauma from the anal experience. Self-protection on the part of the passive partner involves being ready to say "no" until he or she is ready to proceed. Readiness is a combination of physical relaxation, usually helped along by plenty of leisurely anal touching, and desire. Occasionally the anal muscles are relaxes, but the passive partner is still not in the mood. Stimulation should mount only in proportion to the degree of receptivity.

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Be Careful with Dogs on Beaches

I have heard that there are a few beaches where everyone (but I am interested in only women) goes naked. WOW! Hows exciting... I am feeling the stiffness even by reading this line!

Anyways, my main point is that, one needs to be careful from animals on beaches, especially if one is naked. One animal women need not worry about is me. And other animal they should worry about is a dog... Yes, a dog can catch you in tricky situations!

Check out the following picture...

I wish I would be this dog for a day!!! AMEN.

Watching Bollywood sex sirens improve sex drive (2)

Since I am back from the action (check out my earlier post which tells what made me indulge into the action), here is one more & refreshing lot of Bollywood sexy sirens... I am sure this time your pants will get wet!


Oh God... I am feeling something hard in my pants... I am getting so much excited!!!

Watching Bollywood sex sirens improve sex drive (1)

If you are lacking the all important sex drive, what would you do?

There are many ways to improvise on it:

1. Visit a sexologist
2. Find a "hot" girlfriend and entice her into teaching sex to you
3. Watch a XXX movie (write to me and I will send you some really hot movies at very cheap price)
4. Best way: Ogle at these sexy Bollywood sirens... Your organ will automatically start responding!

Mine has already started doing the trick... Can't resist it now... I am going for the act and will post something hotter after I am back! ;)

What is common in these sexy girls?

What is common among these three sexy and semi-nude girls?

Could not find? Oh this is not so difficult... Take a very close look at these sexy sirens... Do you see something common?

Still nothing seeing? Shae on you yaar... How can you miss something as important for a man?

Now got it? Its nothing but their sexy circular perfect shaped boobs man! Take even more closer look at their undies... Something happening in your pants, na... :)

Tips to stop worrying about infidelity

In my earlier post, I discussed primary reasons for growing infidelity and discussed one of the major concerns: "Why marriage adultery ratio is higher in Mumbai?". Let me continue with discussion on some other critical concerns:

Q: Why infidelity creeps in?

Today, many people, whose outside-marriage-relationships are posing a challenge, frequent marital therapists and psychiatrists especially in Mumbai. Psychologist at Lilavati Hospital Dr Varkha Chulani gets about two people per week with marriage infidelity issue. She feels, “There are plenty of reasons for emergence of infidelity in marriage, which varies from person to person. Commonly, it is outcome of mismatched marriage, mind check differences, sexual dissatisfaction, value disparities, experiment, fun and so and so forth.”

Q: How many categories are there?

Generally adultery sneaks in either as a one-night stand and or serious-emotional affair. It is often seen that one-stand is usually the result of sexual dissatisfaction or the desire to experiment whereas the emotion extra-marital affair is generally an offshoot of marriage-for-wrong reasons. Apparently some people who tie nuptial knot for financial benefits or in order to escape from their present situation, many a time land up in extra-marital affair to fulfil their emotional need. Such relationships are much more harrowing and demanding.

Q: What one needs to do?

Marital therapists believe that it is essential for people to think about the basic reasons behind their adultery and accordingly one should deal with it. “If it is just the outcome of their auto-sexual or polygamous nature then one requires to think about the possible consequences like hazardous sexually transmitted diseases, ill- effect on marriage, etc. For people who are involved in highly emotional extra-marital affair should take a decision for good and if they intend to stick with it then it better to officially get separated with their spouse and commit with their lovers,” suggests Dr. Bhonsle.