Ask Sexpert: Masturbation & Hygiene

Q: I am 17 years old. I have a habit of masturbating with my underwear on. I live in a joint family where my clothes go in for washing with those of other members. Can my sperms cause pregnancy to women in my family?

A: You are very un-hygienic. Why don't you wash your underwear before putting it for washing? The sperms cannot cause a pregnancy.

Ask Sexpert: What is Nightfall?

Q: I am 24 years old. For the past eight years, I have been experiencing nightfall two to three times a week. I stopped masturbating long back. Due to nightfall, I have become very weak. Whenever I get sexually excited, a white sticky fluid is secreted from my penis. Please help.

A: Nightfall is a natural experience. If you masturbate, nightfall will stop. Both are harmless. What you see on getting excited is a lubricating fluid secreted by a special gland meant to do just that. So stop worrying.

Ask Sexpert: How to check Virginity?

Q: How can it be ascertained if my wife is a virgin or not, immediately after marriage?

A: Starting with a suspicion ruins many marriages. Just like she cannot find out whether you had an early experience, you cannot find out either. The absent hymen and bleeding at the first intercourse are no indications for virginity.

Ask Sexpert: Problem with Testicles

Q: I am 27 years old. My testicles are not in the same position. It means that one of the testicles is somewhat ‘upside’ and the other one is ‘downside’. Also, they are of disparate sizes. Please help.

A: It’s a unique description. Don’t worry. The left testicle is most often lower than the right one.

Ask Sexpert: Sex Education before Marriage?

Q: I am a bachelor and will be getting married in a few days. Is it okay for adult men and women to undergo sex education before marriage? Or is it solely a trend adopted from the western civilization? Does it go against Indian customs, and eventually lead to social degradation?

A: Have you never heard of the famous frescos at Khajurao and the Kamasutra which has always helped our ancestors with premarital counselling? No social degradation will take place. On the contrary, your and your partner’s ignorance will be dispelled. There is much to be learnt about the first night, about keeping the fire of desire and companionship alive throughout your life and clearing the misconceptions about sex that you may have.

Ask Sexpert: Color Of Genital Area

Q: My penis is too dark. Is it possible to make its colour similar to my skin tone?

A: The genital skin is darker than the rest of the body. In any case, action is the key word and not the colour. Who is going to see the difference?